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The Birth Story of Ayser Zarif

Posted by ZuLaiShah in Ayser Zarif, BabyHood, Babymoon, Parenting Hood, Pregnancy on Thursday, July 05, 2012

Salam and Good Day to all.

Ok this will be my long long longgggg entry. Bare in mind k.It took me days to complete this entry and to flashback this experience kan. Nk kene ingat satu2 balik.

Same like other mothers out there, i pon nak gak la share my delivery experience. Mcm biasa la kan, not all birth experiences are smooth sailing and nice kan? My birth experience was not as my expectation. I considered as my nightmare experience.

Yes, people can say bersalin tu senang. Tapi tak sumer akan dapat kesenangan kan? So jom baca my experience plakkan.

I've been tested twice by Allah on my pregnancy. I miscarried twice. And Alhamdulillah i managed to go thru all of this tests and Alhamdulillah my 3rd pregnancy was successful! But throughout the pregnancy journey was not easy. First trimester i had to stay on bed for 2 months because of my pregnancy symptoms. Disaster!!! I couldn't work. Tak bole tgk monitor ok. Mesti mual and muntah2 teruk.I tried to go to work but totally flat and esok nye kene cont MC weeks by weeks. Kalo doc2 kt sini panggil 'hyperem'. Ni mmg tahap plg teruk la. Sampai i x puasa sebulan ok. FYI, I've lost 8kgs because of severe vomitting pastu makan nasi 1 sudu kecil sahaja. ni tahap muntah kuar acid dlm perut tu kaler ijau2. then kalo try makan kompem muntah balik yg stok sampai kuar kot hidung klo try tahan muntah. Ada paham cmne teruk nye my situation that time. Sampai my OB kata selagi berat x naik xbole keje. haa sampai camtu sekali. Tu yang bile pegi jumpe my OB pakai baju yg berat2 supaya nampak berat naik.hahaha.

Ni mase 12weeks++. Time ni pegi berbuka. Not so okay. The nite tu i muntah2.

This time dah ok la jugak. Muntah2 dah kurang. My appetite getting better.

Then, right after end of first trimester terus jadi ok and sihat and bole makan apa sahaja. makan makan makan makan. Time ni plak kene time Raya aidilfitri..haa amekkk non-stop makan cam org tak penah makan. Yelakan masa awal2 langsung xbole nak makan.

Time Raya Aidilfitri. Sihat walafiat!

Pastu cam biasa la check up every month. Buat test itu ini. then, buat MGTT. Result pon normal. Second trimester memang best! G shopping barang2 baby. Time tu plak ada 2nd child and maternity expo. Haa shopping sakan la jugakkan. Gi sana gi sini. Jalan shopping non-stop walaupon kaki dh start bengkak. Awal kaki i bengkak. Adehh.

Time ni kt KLIA anto adikku balik Jordan

5-months preggy!

6-months preggy!

Wedding Kiki

Wedding Anuarul

After that, bile masuk 3rd trimester, mula la x selesa sana sini. I even xbole tido atas katil ok. Beli recliner sofa semata-mata utk tido. So, i tido la kt sofa sampai la kt hospital pon tido atas sofa. Hubbyku yang tido atas katil hahaha. Dalam x selesa i sempat lagi pegi Sepang Gold Coast for Babymoon and Maternity Photoshoot. Sarat2 pon sempat nk posing. Masa tu dah 7 months.

Kat Sepang Gold Coast for Maternity Photoshoot

Kat Hotel Room's Balcony. 7-months preggy

Masa week bape tah tetiba cam tergerak ati nk check my sugar sbb tiap berat baby dh melebihi jangkauan. Rupenye i got diabetes la plakkan last2 trimester ni. Diet2 pon still x stabil my sugar level. Jap ok jap x ok.

31st January 2012
By 38 weeks++ tu pegi la jumpe my OB. Check2 baby dh xbole nk check dh berat bape sbb dh besar sangatttt. Doc soh admit esok nya kene induced. Memule doc selokkk xbukak lg. I dah rasa x best ni sbb i expected for natural birth. But then bile kene induced confirm dh x natural dah...ok laa still expect for normal delivery walaupun dah x bole naturally kan.

Time ni dah 8-months++ preggy. Sangat sarat!

1st February 2012
Esoknya, dengan berat hati admitted. Supposed kene admit at 8am but i lengah2 kan. So, kene tunggu doc dlm OT.

Muke sedih and risau

At 11am baru doc masukkan ubat induce tu. Kene tunggu 6 jam then doc akan dtg selokkkk selokkk balik ok! nak check baper cm dah bukak. Masa tu rasa terseksa sbb kene baring atas katil. Contraction dah start sikit2 but i still can manage the pain. pastu kene wat CT scan yang sgt x selesa tuh. Lepas doc masuk ubat tu xleh bangun kene BARING ATAS KATIL AND U KNOW KAN THAT I CANT LIE DOWN ON THE BED. Rasa nak nangis time tu. Tahan jek la sampai tertido.

Hubby kepenatan

Pastu kene bangun for lunch + solat. Time ni dah susah nak gerak. But kuatkan semangat gerak jugak. Lepas tu doc dtg lmbt dlm kol 8pm cmtu. Sempat la solat sumer. Pastu doc seluk2 lg. Baru bukak 1cm!!! Doc masukkan ubat lagi. Kene rest lagi 1 jam atas katil xleh gerak...Buat CT Scan lagi..Adehhh..Allah saja yang tau betapa sakit dan seksa nya diri ini. Contraction dah makin kuat. Midwives datang selok2 baru bukak 1.5cm. Kene tunggu lagi..i xleh tido dh sakit2 ni. Tuka tempat tido kat recliner sofa. But i could not sleep well bcos contraction dah semakin menjadi-jadi and i felt really uncomfortable.

CTG Scan

2nd February 2012

The next morning, the midwives checked again. (selok2 lagi). This time dah 2.5cm bukak nye. They called my OB and then my OB soh masuk labour room dah. Time tu kene cucuk kt bons bons ubat bg berak...sibbaik terus bangun n turun pas kene cucuk tu...punye la tak tahan nk terkeluar dah. Lps tu turun ke labour room.

Then, kene la dok kt situ sambil tunggu doc x sampai2 lagi. Bila doc sampai jek doc nk pecahkn my air ketuban. My God!!! Sangat sakit hokeh!. Tahan jek la. Pastu mmg dh kene drip dah. CTG bagai sumer dah siap pasang nk make sure baby's heart beat ok. My contraction even worse but i managed to control la just uncomfortable je. Then, midwives ke my OB dah tak ingat dah dtg lg selok2. Baru 3cm. Tunggu lagi. Midwives dok paksa amek epidural or injection. I takmo. Pastu dia soh ngiring. I dah x bole gerak dah cmne nk ngiring. Rasa nk pang je midwives ni tau. Grrrr...So tunggu la lagi..

At 12pm, doc dtg lagi checked. Dh 5cm..Happy la sikit kan. But doc ckp lmbt sgt progress ni doc soh amek injection. So, redha je la amek injection. Lps amek injection dh x rasa sakit sgt. Itry ngiring and tido. My hubby and my mom gilir2 teman. I pasang mps Quran and sambil2 selawat, zikir. At 6pm cmtu rasa nye, doc or midwives checked again still 5cm xmo bukak dah. Doc bagi last chance sampai 8pm klo x bukak kene terus emergency C-sect. I dah rasa x best dah ni. Contraction dh mcm bukak 10cm. Habis tangan hubby i kene cakar sume kan. Yang paling best dia ajar breathing technique salah i plak yg kene ajar dia balik. Mana x stress time tu.

Final call, 8pm doc checked still x bukak2 lagi dah. Maintain 5cm jek so doc dh soh masuk OT dah sbb dh 12hours lps air ketuban pecah. Doc xmo risk baby lg. I dah nangis2 dah ni. My parents calmed me down. The nurses prepared me for the operation. Then they brought me to the OT. Masa otw tu OT room mmg sempat jumpe my parents. Hubby i tgh bersiap pakai baju OT gak.

Hubby dah macam doc!

Masa kt OT room tu bayangkan kene baring atas tempat tu cam papan jek kecik jek. Tgh sarat cmni nk kene baring...mau tergolek kang...pastu doc bius cucuk epidural kt blkg i. Masa tu dh xkire dah sakit ke hapa. My OB datang peluk i. Syahdu gak time tuh. Pastu dh siap2 sume nak operate, tetiba badan i x kebas lg. Bole rasa dok hiris kulitku! I pon jerit la sakit!!!! Then, dorg terus bagi i gas pengsan! I dah xsedar apa. My hubby was there watching the operation la kan. Then , he settled our baby etc etc.

My cutie pie dah bole pegang!

After 20minutes cmtu kot, I sedar2 masa tu dorang tgh bawak i ke ward. Masa tu i asked my hubby to call Kak Sue to help me on breastfeeding and bring extra EBM for my baby just in case i nye susu x keluar lagi. So, bile dah sampai ward they transfered me ke katil dalam ward and that time i mcm kesejukan menggigil x hingat maybe sbb baru sedar n kt dlm OT kan sejuk gaban plus kesan bius. i kene selubung berlapi-lapis selimut. Then after dah setel sumer, baru la i dapat jumpe my baby and masa tu Kak Sue pon dah ada terus dia ajar cmne nk breastfeed baby. See my baby. His birth weight was 3.99kg! And i dapat tau drpd doc my baby xdapat nk kuar normally because his umbilical cord dah tersangkut kt bahu dia and dia mengiring so thats why la opening stopped at 5cm. So i redha je la dengan ketentuan-Nya.

Ayser Zarif bin Mohd Zulkarnain :) was soooo chubby!

After stayed there for 4 days, then dapat discharged terus balik Melaka confinement kt sana. Can u imagine i baru lps kene operate nk blk Melaka. Punya la tahan sakit jek. Allah saja yang tau kesakitan ini.

Daddy & Ayser

Mommy & Ayser

Apa2 pon ini semua sudah Qada' dan Qadar dr Allah for me. InsyaAllah ganjaran ang lebih besar nanti. :)

So far, i masih trauma lagi :D. InsyaAllah bole cuba lg. I nak BF my baby until 2 years old. InsyaAllah dengan izin-Nya.

Btw, I nk share ganjaran daripada Allah untuk ibu mengandung dan bersalin. Semoga kita mendapat manfaat nya.

2 rakaat solat wanita yang hamil adalah lebih baik daripada solat 80 rakaat wanita yang tidak hamil
Wanita yang hamil ini juga mereka mendapat ganjaran pahala puasa di siang hari dan juga pahala ibadat di malam hari.
Wanita yang bersalin akan dianugerahkan pahala 70 tahun solat dan puasa
Setiap kesakitan pada urat ibu yang ketika sedang bersalin,Allah akan menanugerahkan ganjaran satu pahala haji.
sekiranya ibu itu meninggal dunia dalam masa 40 hari selepas bersalin akan dikira mati syahid dengan syarat taqwa
Ibu yang member susu dari badannya kepada anaknya ketahuilah bahawa setiap titik susu yang diminum itu akan diberikan ganjaran satu pahala
Ibu yang member minum susu badan kepada anaknya yang menangis akan diberikan ganjaran pahala 1 tahun puasa dan solat
Sekiranya ibu itu menyusukan anaknya sehingga cukup 2 tahun,malaikat di langit akan mengkhabarkan berita bahawa ibu tersebut akan wajib mendapat nikmat syurga .
Seorang ibu yang menghabiskan tidur malam dalam keadaan tidak selesa kerana menyusukan anaknya yang sedang sakit akan dianugerahkan pahala seperti melepaskan 20 orang hamba
Ibu yang tidak cukup tidur kerana menjaga anaknya yang sakit akan diampunkan seluruh dosanya.
Dan apabila ibu tersebut menghiburkan anaknya akan diberikan ganjaran pahala 12 tahun jumaat

Source: Minda, Jiwa & Hati

Part 1: BabyMoon Retreat at Gold Coast..

Posted by ZuLaiShah in Babymoon, Family/Friends, Pregnancy on Monday, December 12, 2011

After 30 weeks cruising on our first pregnancy, we (Mommy & Daddy) decided to go for a 'BabyMoon Retreat'.. Mommy really needs some comfort and relaxing time for herself after endless backache and sleepless nights.

source: goldenpalmtree

We decided to head to the Golden Palm Tree Resort in Gold Coast, Sepang.. a 90 minutes drive from home. How i wish it was Gold Coast, Australia. This is our first time there, prior to the stay, we managed to read some reviews on the resort, despite some negative comments, we decided to proceed. We did an early purchase online where we were given discounted rates for the room.

This particular resort is a bit different from the rest. You're not allowed to park your car in the resort compound, except check-in and check-out. They've allocated a big parking space across the resort, about 200 metres away. Don't worry, they'll pick you up by van to the lobby. Some of us might not like the idea of hopping onto a van, but for me, I can deal with it as you'll be rewarded with a nice clean resort area.

The walkway to our room.. above the sea..

Riding the buggy to our room

Initially, we booked their Premier Travellers Palm Villa. During check-in, we requested a sea view room but was told that they were fully booked. Seeing my dissapointment, the helpful staff later upgraded us to a sea view Canary Palm Villa. The unit has two rooms and bathrooms. It also has a living hall and two balconies. The roof was made from alang-alang thatch, stepping in to the room, you can already notice it's unique soothing smell. The room was pretty big for two of us, nonetheless, we enjoyed it!

source: goldenpalmtree

Mommy checking out her baby bump..

The weather was nice, not too hot and it didn't rain... the trip would have been perfect 'if' the sea water was crystal clear.. What to do.. Teh ais pun boleh laa...